Finding Gold in a World Full of Dirt: A Reflection on Proverbs 11:27

GOOD MORNING…HAPPY FRIDAY!

Pioneer Elementary- Lots of Red Ribbon Week fun at Pioneer on Camo Day and Wear Red Day!

Crestview Elementary First Responders Luncheon- Thanks a ton to our first responders who were able to join us for lunch. You all serve our community well!!!

Woodland Elementary- Congratulations to Connor and Alex for being nominated as GREAT examples of self-control. You're already on the road to wonderful things. Understanding that you are in charge of yourself is the first step to being an exceptional leader! We salute you! Thank you to Mrs. Sharpe and Mrs. Bell for recognizing these students!

Graham Junior High- Congratulations to GJHS student Hadley Trammell for winning Grand Champion Red Angus at the State Fair of Texas!

GHS RSB3- Congratulations to the Rompin, Stompin Big Blue Band on advancing to the Area Contest and earning straight 1’s at the UIL Region 7 Marching Contest this past Saturday!

Lady Blues and Steer Tennis Awards- Congratulations to our Academic All-District Award recipients!Academic All-District– Stacey Gonzalez, Chris Reyes, and Heather Wright. Girls Singles– Jade Dospapas - 1st Team All-District Girls Singles; Stacey Gonzalez - 1st Team All-District Girls Singles; Kline Krupp - 1st Team All-District Girls Singles; Olivia Buckley - 2nd Team All-District Girls Singles, and Hope Jones - 2nd Team All-District Girls Singles.Boys Singles– Hayden Burrows --  2nd Team All-District Boys. Girls Doubles– Jade Dospapas/Heather Wright --1st Team All-District Girls Doubles, Olivia Buckley/Kline Krupp and 2nd Team All-District Girls Doubles. Boys Doubles– Chris Reyes/Tyler Bryan -- 2nd team All-District Boys Doubles. District MVP -- Jade Dospapas.

Lady Blues Volleyball- The Lady Blues will host Mineral Wells for a 4:00 pm district match this afternoon.  GO LADY BLUES!

Graham Steer Football: The Steers will be at home this evening vs Mineral Wells for a 7:00 p.m. contest. GO STEERS… BEAT THE RAMS!

GHS Key Club Fall Festival- All are invited to join in on the fun at the Key Club Fall Festival on Wednesday, October 30th!

Finding Gold in a World Full of Dirt: A Reflection on Proverbs 11:27

Proverbs 11:27 offers a powerful reminder: “Anyone can find the dirt in someone. Be the one that finds the gold.” This verse offers profound wisdom for how we approach life, relationships, and the people around us. In a world where negativity spreads faster than kindness, these words challenge us to live differently. Let’s dive deeper into what it means to "find the gold" in others and how it can transform our mindset, relationships, and communities.

It's no secret that dirt is easy to find. Social media and gossip channels thrive on exposing flaws, mistakes, and shortcomings. Our culture often rewards those who bring out the worst in others, whether through criticism, judgment, or blame. We see it at work, in friendships, and even within our families.

But there’s nothing special about finding dirt—it takes little effort. Every human being has imperfections and struggles. Focusing on someone’s faults is like walking through a goldmine and being satisfied with handfuls of dust. What value is there in pointing out what’s broken without seeking what is beautiful

Finding gold, however, requires effort. Gold is often hidden deep within the earth, and only those with patience, persistence, and discernment discover it. The same is true when looking for the good in others. To find gold in people, we must actively search for what is praiseworthy: their strengths, potential, and beauty.

This requires intentionality. It asks us to look beyond the surface, past the mistakes and flaws, to the deeper qualities that make each person unique and valuable. When we look for the good in others, we aren’t ignoring their faults—we are choosing to focus on their worth. This practice nurtures hope and builds trust, both within others and ourselves.

Seeing the good in others is not just an act of kindness—it’s a way of life that reshapes our minds. When we adopt the mindset of finding gold, we cultivate gratitude and compassion. Instead of harboring resentment, we make room for forgiveness. Instead of criticizing, we offer encouragement. This shift in perspective has the power to build healthier relationships, strengthen communities, and foster peace.

Psychologists have found that focusing on others’ strengths improves their sense of worth and enhances our well-being. Encouraging others, celebrating their victories, and recognizing their potential creates a ripple effect of positivity, drawing people closer together.

How do we cultivate the habit of finding gold? Here are a few practical steps:

• Practice gratitude daily: Look for at least one good thing in someone every day, whether it's a kind gesture, a strength, or an effort they made.
• Speak life-giving words: Compliment, encourage, and affirm the people around you. A few kind words can change someone’s day—or even their life.
• Give grace: When others stumble, resist the urge to judge. Instead, offer understanding and give them the space to grow.
• Be intentional in relationships: Take time to really know the people in your life. Sometimes, the gold is buried under layers of hurt or insecurity, but it’s there if you look closely.

Those who seek gold in others leave behind a legacy of love and encouragement. They become the people others turn to for support, knowing they will find not judgment but acceptance. These gold-finders become bridges in their communities, connecting people and fostering environments where everyone feels valued.

In the end, the legacy we leave isn't measured by how much dirt we discover but by the treasures we find in people and the love we share. Proverbs 11:27 challenges us all to be a dirt-seeker or a gold-finder.

Anyone can find the dirt in someone. It’s easy to criticize, judge, and highlight imperfections. But it takes a person of character to search for the gold—the hidden beauty, the untapped potential, and the good in others. When we choose to find gold, we reflect God’s grace, giving others the same kindness and mercy that He extends to us.

So, the next time you’re tempted to focus on someone’s flaws, remember the wisdom of Proverbs 11:27. Choose to see the gold. Be a light in a world that desperately needs more encouragement and hope. You just might be the one who uncovers the treasure in someone’s heart that they didn’t even know was there.

Have a nice day… Take care of yourself and OTHERS!

CORNY JOKE OF THE DAY:

Did you hear about the famous pickle? (Scroll down for the answer.)

He is a really big dill!

Planting a Seed

GOOD MORNING…HAPPY THURSDAY!

School Calendar Reminder- No school for students or staff will be on Friday, October 18th. There will be no school for students on Monday, October 21st. Monday, October 21st, is a Professional Development Day and Parent-Teacher Conferences.

7th/8th Grade Band Concert on the Lawn

Pioneer Elementary- It’s always fun when the Graham Firefighters visit the campus!

Crestview Elementary— Red Ribbon Week- October 22-25!

Woodland Elementary- Congratulations to Connor and Alex for being nominated as GREAT examples of self-control. You're already on the road to wonderful things. Understanding that you are in charge of yourself is the first step to being an exceptional leader! We salute you! Thank you to Mrs. Sharpe and Mrs. Bell for recognizing these students!

Graham Junior High- Thank you to Dr. Glenn Rogers for speaking to our TX History students about leadership and the Texas House of Representatives legislative process.

Congratulations to Michael, Jasper, and Kaylee on being nominated by their teachers as Graham Junior High School's students of the week!

GHS FFA- Congratulations to Emahlynn Martinez and Brayelyn Brown on being awarded FFA jackets from Young County Farm Bureau which honors Lead Like Larry, Larry Pratt. Larry was a great man and loved FFA. Wear these jackets with honor girls!

GHS Bass Fishing Team- Toby Boenisch and Cole Heathcoat reeled in 4 fish  today totaling 7.44 pounds at Lake Granbury. They finished the day in 18th place out of 163 teams.

Lady Blues Volleyball- The Lady Blues will be in Stephenville this afternoon for a 4:30 p.m. district match. GO LADY BLUES!

Graham Steer Football: The Steers will be on the road in Bridgeport for a 7:00 p.m. contest. GO STEERS… BEAT THE BULLS!

Planting a Seed…

As an educator, I have often worked with fellow staff members or students and I would feel frustrated because they seem to care less about what I perceived as critical things. The rest of that story is about the blessings I see in them "down the road" and learning that small thoughts and ideas shared became an essential part of their foundation and led them to an enjoyable and productive life. Lesson learned...plant the seed and allow the good in people to enable germination and growth when they are ready and it is valued.

Have a nice day… Take care of yourself and OTHERS!

CORNY JOKE OF THE DAY:

What do you call a werewolf with a fever? (Scroll down for the answer.)

A hot dog!

In All You Do, Try to Be a Wow, Not a Woe!

GOOD MORNING…HAPPY HOMECOMING FRIDAY!\

HOCO Banner by GHS National Art Society Students

Pioneer Elementary- There is always lots of fun and learning happening at Pioneer! Enjoy the smiles at Twin Day!

Crestview Elementary- Flashlight reading in the Library was lots of fun! The students kickoffed Homecoming Week with Twin Day!!!

Woodland Elementary—Thank you to Tyler Figg and his friends at Hub for creating these wonderful soccer goals and providing nets! You sure put a bunch of smiles on our students' faces! Thanks also to Mrs. Heathcoat for coordinating all of this.

Graham Junior High- Congratulations to Ailan, Abigail, and Austion on being named the GJHS students of the week!

Lady Blues Golf- The Lady Blues finished 3rd Place at Decatur this week. Congratulations!

Lady Blues Volleyball- Congrats on the Tuesday victory over Mineral Wells!  The Lady Blues will host Brownwood this afternoon at 4:30 pm. GO LADY BLUES! 

Graham Steer Football: The Steers will host Burkburnett this evening for Homecoming. Kick-off will be at 7:00 p.m. GO STEERS… BEAT THE BULLDOGS!

In All You Do, Try to Be a Wow, Not a Woe!

Inspired by the quote from Dr. Debasish Mridha

In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in the daily grind, to go through the motions and settle into routines that don’t always inspire or energize us. Yet, we’ve all encountered those rare moments where someone or something makes us pause, smile, or think, “Wow.” These moments linger with us, often sparking joy or leaving us with a sense of awe.

The quote, “In all you do, try to be a wow and not a woe,” by Dr. Debasish Mridha, challenges us to be that source of positivity, creativity, and impact in every aspect of our lives. Let’s explore what it means to embody this mindset and how it can transform not only our own experience but also the lives of those around us.

Be a Wow in Your Work

Regardless of your position or role within an organization, the difference between good and great often lies in the effort and passion you bring to your work. To “be a wow” means going beyond what’s expected—bringing innovation, excellence, and enthusiasm to every task.

Instead of approaching work as a series of obligations, see it as an opportunity to make a difference. When you deliver beyond what’s asked, solve problems creatively, or show dedication to quality, you inspire others. You set a standard. You become the person that others look to as a leader, regardless of your official title.

Ask yourself: How can I turn this assignment or project into something that stands out? How can I go beyond the ordinary and exceed expectations?

Be a Wow in Relationships

Relationships are at the heart of everything we do, whether personal or professional. Being a "wow" in relationships means showing up for others with authenticity, kindness, and empathy. It’s about actively listening, being present, and offering support when needed, even when it’s inconvenient. It’s about creating memorable experiences for others through thoughtful gestures and meaningful conversations.

When you choose to be a wow in relationships, you uplift those around you. You become the person who brightens someone’s day, who brings positivity into a room, and who is remembered for how you made others feel.

Ask yourself: Am I being the kind of friend, colleague, or family member who leaves others feeling valued and appreciated?

Be a Wow in Challenges

Life inevitably brings challenges, setbacks, and obstacles. It’s during these times that the choice to be a wow becomes even more important. Being a "wow" in adversity means embracing resilience and maintaining a positive attitude in the face of hardship. It means finding solutions instead of dwelling on problems and encouraging others to do the same.

Rather than being weighed down by the woe of challenges, use them as opportunities to grow, learn, and innovate. Your approach to adversity can inspire others to do the same, turning difficulties into opportunities for transformation.

Ask yourself: How can I approach this challenge in a way that uplifts myself and others?

Be a Wow in Everyday Life

Sometimes, it’s the small things that make the biggest impact. Being a wow doesn’t always require grand gestures or monumental achievements. It can be as simple as offering a smile to a stranger, showing gratitude to a coworker, or taking a moment to appreciate life’s little joys.

By consistently choosing to be a wow in everyday life, you create a ripple effect of positivity. Your actions, no matter how small, can make someone’s day a little brighter. And over time, these small moments of “wow” can lead to a life filled with meaning and purpose.

Ask yourself: What small action can I take today to bring joy or positivity to someone else?

Dr. Debasish Mridha’s quote reminds us that we all have the power to choose how we show up in the world. In everything you do, from your work to your relationships and how you handle challenges, you have the opportunity to be a wow—someone who inspires, uplifts, and leaves a lasting impact.

So, as you go through your day, ask yourself: Am I being a wow or a woe? The choice is yours.

CORNY JOKE OF THE DAY:

Why didn’t the skeleton go to homecoming? (Scroll down for the answer.)

Because he had no body to go with!

Adversity Will Come... You Choose the Response

Adversity Will Come… You Choose the Response

Life is full of unexpected twists and turns. Just when you think you have everything in order, adversity often knocks at your door—uninvited and unavoidable. Challenges, whether personal, professional, or emotional, are inevitable. But while we cannot control the arrival of adversity, we have absolute power over how we respond. This choice shapes our character and our future.

Adversity doesn’t discriminate. It comes in different forms: loss, failure, disappointment, health issues, financial struggles, and even relational conflicts. No one is immune, and often, these moments arrive when we least expect them, leaving us feeling vulnerable or unprepared. However, adversity isn’t just a roadblock—it’s an opportunity for growth and transformation. It offers lessons that we can’t learn through comfort or success.

When faced with adversity, it’s easy to react. A reaction is immediate, often driven by emotion, and may not always serve our best interests. For instance, when faced with a professional setback, the initial reaction might be frustration, anger, or despair. We might find ourselves spiraling into negativity or blame.

But choosing a response is different from reacting. A response requires intentionality and mindfulness. It’s taking a step back, assessing the situation, and deciding how to proceed in a way that aligns with your values and long-term goals. A thoughtful response can turn adversity into a stepping stone, rather than a stumbling block.

Perspective plays a crucial role in how we respond to adversity. Two people can face the same challenge, yet their responses might be worlds apart due to their mindset. One person may see failure as the end of the road, while another views it as a valuable learning experience that brings them one step closer to success.

Consider this: when faced with a challenging situation, ask yourself, “What can I learn from this?” and “How can I use this to grow?” This shift in perspective reframes adversity, making it less about the obstacle itself and more about your journey through it.

Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity, and it’s a skill that can be developed over time. People who are resilient don’t avoid adversity—they learn how to navigate it with grace and strength. They understand that setbacks are part of life and that every challenge holds the potential for personal growth.

To build resilience, focus on these key areas:

• Emotional Regulation: Practice staying calm and grounded when adversity strikes. Mindfulness, deep breathing, and meditation can help.

• Problem-Solving: Break down the challenge into smaller, manageable steps. What actions can you take right now to improve the situation?

• Support Networks: Lean on friends, family, mentors, or colleagues. No one needs to face adversity alone, and seeking support isn’t a sign of weakness, but of wisdom.

• Optimism: Cultivate hope for the future, even in the darkest moments. Believe that things can improve, and often, they will.

Ultimately, adversity is inevitable, but suffering is optional. We can’t always change our circumstances, but we can choose how we respond to them. We can choose growth over stagnation, optimism over despair, and action over passivity.

When faced with challenges, remember that you hold the power to respond in a way that honors your potential. Adversity may come, but it’s your response that will define who you become.

Let adversity be the catalyst for your growth, not the chain that holds you back. The choice is yours.

CORNY JOKE OF THE DAY:

Did you hear about the archaeologist who got fired? (Scroll down for the answer.)

His career is in ruins!